We were taking a quick dinner on our way home tonight We went to the supermarket after work today, and for a moment, I realized that I really appreciate and feel grateful for this man that I called husband now. He is always super helpful, not even once I ever heard him complaining when I … Continue reading Groceries
Love
Marriage
I decided to let my family's form become an evolving ecosystem. I un-became a woman clinging to a prescribed family structure and became one clinging to each of her family member's right to their full humanity: including me. We would break and re-break our structure instead of allowing any of us to live broken. I … Continue reading Marriage
Pedicab
Op. Surung Doli He always being a hardworking man. In his senior days, he owned several pedicabs for rent, so he had a steady income. I remember that whenever I wish for extra candies or a chocolate bar, I just came to him and he would give me pocket money with one condition : I … Continue reading Pedicab
Untuk selamanya..
"Lalu mereka menikah dan hidup bahagia selamanya..." Saya rasa cerita-cerita yang berakhir seperti itu harus segera direvisi agar lebih sesuai dengan realita. Saya Juga menyarankan kata keterangan waktu "Lalu" Juga diganti dengan "sebelum". Berikut ide-ide untuk merevisi kalimat diatas: Sebelum mereka menikah, mereka membicarakan pengaturan keuangan rumah tangga, Siapa bertanggung jawab Untuk membayar apa jika … Continue reading Untuk selamanya..
200!
Yes! Congratulations to me !๐๐๐ I've write 200 posts on this blog; I've write two hundred things about my self! My gudness!! I wonder how my husband Can keep his calm with a wife like me ๐ ๐ ๐ and oh.. I also write about books that I've read. This blog has been a very loyal outlet … Continue reading 200!
Tabo Cottages
If anybody asked me: Where will you stay in heaven? I will swiftly answer: in Tabo cottage, You just can't be disappointed there, I've been there several times and I was always feeling so much joyโฆ It's a pure Bliss y'all. ๐ฅฐ Waitโฆ Did you just say that you've been several times to heaven? Wellโฆyes! … Continue reading Tabo Cottages
Pink!
I saw a clip of Pink documentary video about how she becomes full of worries regarding raising her children in this weird times. I adore Pink anyway. See my hair? I used to cut it short ๐ partly because I like Pink. Another reason may have tied with a mild depression that I've had through … Continue reading Pink!
Forty
I will hit the fabulous forty this yearโฆ I am so grateful in every way. This body has been carrying my soul for almost 40 years .. and I must admit that more than half of that time I feel "less". Oftentimes I said to myself -unconsciously or consciously or in between- that this only … Continue reading Forty
Happy+Lucky
I am a happy woman. I really am. And when I found out that it's really a rare thing to be claimed by a woman; being happy in her life, I consider that I'm also very lucky. Not so long go, I was stupify when I realized the 'hard to swallow' fact: women in my … Continue reading Happy+Lucky
30 days!
I've posted daily for 30 days! I feel festive!! As for my self-love experiment, today is the 10th day. I have no idea I could actually do this. To even think that I would carved 15-20 minutes a day to write or post something on this blog seems a very unachievable idea. So it's quite … Continue reading 30 days!