You can’t control someone else’s behavior but you don't want to be provoked by someone’s ill-mannered attitude. So what do you do? That is my question today. How do you deal with a constantly/permanently rude person? In our vast social circle we usually have this ill-mannered people, either in the office or in our family … Continue reading Rude
mind and body
Ocean
I just saw this movie, and boy it's really good food for my soul. Literally. Dorothea William: there once this young fish, he came to an old fish and said, I want to see the Ocean, then the old fish replied, see the Ocean? My boy, you are in the ocean, then the young fish … Continue reading Ocean
Footlove
I'm having a pedicure treatment today! I feel like am having an ultimate 2 hours vacation! Sweet. It's all started with my husband wants to have a pedicure since his toe nail is clawing to the skin and it hurts, notably when he wears his work shoes. And of course as a responsible wife, I … Continue reading Footlove
Permission
You've had your permit to re-start your good habits, yes, everyone had their good-habits-days-off, they just don't tell you, as a matter of fact darlin, it's very rare to happen that anyone will tell you their struggle with keeping the good habits. I am a rare person, that's why I told you it's okey to … Continue reading Permission
The change
Be the change you want to see in the world Okey, from that point above, I will do things as follows: Always questions hard the intelligence of a person who said: I don't know if this "statement/article/news etc" is right or wrong. I just share it, somebody might need this information. When I face this … Continue reading The change
Eagle
A parable from priest and therapist Anthony de Mello on the stories we tell ourselves:"A man found an eagle's egg and put it in a nest of a barnyard hen. The eaglet hatched with the brood of chickens and grew up with them.All his life the eagle did what the barnyard chicks did, thinking he … Continue reading Eagle
Leggings
Lake Toba Once, I was so into the idea to participate in a 10 km run in the Samosir island, lake Toba. At that time I had this idea, I had 6 months time to prepare my self a.k.a to practice and strengthen my leg and feet to meet all the requirements for a 10 … Continue reading Leggings
Slow progress
Just in case no one has told you lately, the progress you are making truly matters. There are so many things you do that go unseen, but that does not mean that you, yourself are not seen. The rooms you enter into are still filled with the Light you bring.
Failure
I rarely watch TV... And when I said rare, it is rare, the last time I actually sit in front of a tv set to watch a show, is probably .. hmm ... 7-8 years ago. My favorite show was Top Gear ( the one hosted by Jeremy Clarkson, Richard Hammond and James May and … Continue reading Failure
Average
I came across a very interesting video clip about average-ness in education. There's this one professor that said he has scanned more than enough people's brain to be able to conclude that there's no such thing as an average person. But the sad thing is, our education, mass product was made with the assumption that … Continue reading Average