Some people are in such utter darkness that they will burn you just to see a light. Try not to take it personally.Kamand Kojouri
For some reason, the lesson of “not taking everything personally” seems one of the hardest lesson I learn. I used to think that I’m not good enough, I am not smart enough, I am not ‘perfect’ enough. I often said in my head: how nice it would be to be some one else, living somewhere else, had another kind of life unlike my own life, and so on. All of this because I believe every comments and opinions of other people toward me.
When one said, you are so tall, such a weird girl, I believed it. Yeah… I’m weird. It didn’t occur to me that the person who said that is actually jealous with my height. When one said, you do nothing right, I believed it. I didn’t realize that the person is actually belittle me because he, himself is so insecure.
Cheers, may we always remember to be good to ourselves,