We only control what we don't trust. We can either control ourselves or love ourselves, but we can't do both. Love is the opposite of control. Love demands trust. I love myself now. Self-love means that I have a relationship with myself built on trust and loyalty. I trust myself to have my own back, … Continue reading Control
Relationship
The four laws of a Shaman
The first says:"The person who comes into your life is the right person"In other words,no one comes into our lives by chance, all the people around us, who interact with us, are there for a reason, to make us learn and advance in each situation. The second law says: What happens is the only thing … Continue reading The four laws of a Shaman
Hurt
In English: Of course I'll hurt you.Of course you'll hurt me.Of course we will hurt each other.But, this is the very condition of existence.To become spring, means accepting the risk of winter.To become present, means accepting the risk of absence. I was reminded today that I should not seek only good things in familial relationships, … Continue reading Hurt
Limited
Cheers, May you be at peace my dearest readers,Karin Sabrina
A club
At the end of 2022, a dear friend invited me to join a book club, and I was excited! I mean .. literally excited, since I've never join a book club before and I love books, so after a few tap on the phone, I am a member of a book club. After the registration … Continue reading A club
Clean
I've read somewhere that it takes seven years to clean our body and soul from a previous relationship; seven years to refresh ourselves, so we have to wait 7 years to have a new super re-start button. Perhaps the point is not that we have to wait 7 years before we can properly heal from … Continue reading Clean
Mon fils
Mon cher fils, ce monde est un si grand endroit avec tant de choses, de lumières et d'obscurités et tout le reste. Cet endroit immense peut être beau et impitoyable en même temps, et je ne sais pas comment te préparer pour cet endroit. Tu es si douce et gentille mon cher, tu es serviable, … Continue reading Mon fils
Envy
I'm learning to not envy others, It's supposedly not difficult. I can still wear my pants that I bought 5 years ago I can laugh most of the time
Conspiracy
To this day, I never imagined that two years ago, we would or could have a beautiful, totally luxurious small wedding party, complete with all required bataknese customs (albeit in an abridged version due to the covid pandemic) and attended by all important humans for us. Both of us never had a proper wedding party … Continue reading Conspiracy
A moment of happiness
A moment of happiness,you and I are sitting on the verandah,apparently two, but one in soul, you and I.We feel the flowing water of life here,you and I, with the garden's beautyand the birds singing.The stars will be watching us,and we will show themwhat it is to be a thin crescent moon.You and I un-selfed, … Continue reading A moment of happiness
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