Love your self first, they said, then... And only then you could love others. In my case, the man that I luckily called husband now, love me first, he show me that I to him, is so important. At that time I didn't love my self, I am so full of rage and disappointment toward … Continue reading First
Love
Love
Choose a job you love, and you will never have to work a day in your life. It's a promise made by an unknown, and being spread irresponsibly by a motivational speaker. In real life, even the job that you love can be unpleasant, and you will need to submit a 3 day off in … Continue reading Love
Meet up
Remembrance is a form of meetingKhalil Gibran
Ernest’s drawings
Sat nite
Our usual sat nite: The couchThe three of usThe books The movieSeveral cups of hot tea+ chocolateThe talks I have come to the point where I finally understand the best gift I have. The gift of those perfectly ordinary days. Today is one of those ordinary days. I spent time to clean the house, to … Continue reading Sat nite
Groceries
We were taking a quick dinner on our way home tonight We went to the supermarket after work today, and for a moment, I realized that I really appreciate and feel grateful for this man that I called husband now. He is always super helpful, not even once I ever heard him complaining when I … Continue reading Groceries
Marriage
I decided to let my family's form become an evolving ecosystem. I un-became a woman clinging to a prescribed family structure and became one clinging to each of her family member's right to their full humanity: including me. We would break and re-break our structure instead of allowing any of us to live broken. I … Continue reading Marriage
Pedicab
Op. Surung Doli He always being a hardworking man. In his senior days, he owned several pedicabs for rent, so he had a steady income. I remember that whenever I wish for extra candies or a chocolate bar, I just came to him and he would give me pocket money with one condition : I … Continue reading Pedicab
Untuk selamanya..
"Lalu mereka menikah dan hidup bahagia selamanya..." Saya rasa cerita-cerita yang berakhir seperti itu harus segera direvisi agar lebih sesuai dengan realita. Saya Juga menyarankan kata keterangan waktu "Lalu" Juga diganti dengan "sebelum". Berikut ide-ide untuk merevisi kalimat diatas: Sebelum mereka menikah, mereka membicarakan pengaturan keuangan rumah tangga, Siapa bertanggung jawab Untuk membayar apa jika … Continue reading Untuk selamanya..
200!
Yes! Congratulations to me !🎉🎉🎉 I've write 200 posts on this blog; I've write two hundred things about my self! My gudness!! I wonder how my husband Can keep his calm with a wife like me 😅😅😅 and oh.. I also write about books that I've read. This blog has been a very loyal outlet … Continue reading 200!