Do not ever base your decisions on the advice of those who don’t have to deal with the results

When I have to make difficult decisions, such as to stay in a toxic relationship but considered as an acceptable member of this society I live amongst, or to divorce and become an outcast, I learn to trust my self. Some friends with unhappy marriage told me that marriage is not supposed to be happy… You don’t even to love each other, happy marriage is exist but only in movies, sitcom, social media and nowhere else; in other words, divorce is not an option. Some of my extended family said divorce is forbidden by God, to which I often replied: but we don’t believe to the same God.

Yes, I choose to be an outcast, and I’m glad I did. I’m not sorry to ignore all advices from those people who doesn’t have to deal with the results. Our life is our responsibility.

I’m happy with my current marriage. To love a husband who really loves you is the closest thing with living in heaven, in my opinion.

Cheers, stay in love


Karin Sabrina