A few years ago, the realization hit me on the face. I couldn't carry people's expectations or taking a responsibility for their happiness.
I also realize I could take a good care of my self and be at peace with my self. I am enough, I don't have to be someone else to be content.
I set a healthy boundaries and repeating often enough to my self that I am allowed to answer with "no". I am not missing anything just because I'm saying "no".
I stay away as much possible from social media, I am not compatible with "sharing everything with the world", I am comfortable being a very private person.
I realized, way too late, that in life, it's rare to find people that genuinely happy for our success. I must accept that the quantity of my few friends is getting fewer every day.
I grow happy and peaceful.
Cheers, may you be happy, may you be safe, may you be at peace.