Relationship
Shine
My social media is filled with Tina Turner's story.. Mainly about her courage to leave her abusive ex. husband of 16 years who at that time was also her manager. I resonate deeply with her story, because I too left my abusive ex. husband of 8 years with no money and was unemployed at that … Continue reading Shine
Fight
Yes, let's have a fight then. I often wonder about the depth of our relationship, I trust you with all my heart, and I love you with all of my being, and surely I wish you understand that. Yes, let's have a fight then. I am not worried you will fall out of love with … Continue reading Fight
Anger
Okay, Let sit now...but first, be patient with me, I am not used to talking to you directly, usually whenever you have arrived, I just lash it out to someone else or I sit quietly and think for happier events, in short, it's my default mechanism to avoid you. So, today you decided to come … Continue reading Anger
After
After you went away, I found a new life, a life that is calm, warm, safe and even luxurious. I never want the life that I had when we were still together. The memories still hurt, even the wound still bleeds. I am not suitable for you, stay at a great distance from me. I … Continue reading After
Appreciate
What should we do when some members of our family seem so blind to great blessings in front of her/his nose? I stay silent, because I have no idea what their state of minds are. Perhaps they're struggling with huge problems so they fail to appreciate the blessings in front of their eyes. I hold … Continue reading Appreciate
Control
We only control what we don't trust. We can either control ourselves or love ourselves, but we can't do both. Love is the opposite of control. Love demands trust. I love myself now. Self-love means that I have a relationship with myself built on trust and loyalty. I trust myself to have my own back, … Continue reading Control
The four laws of a Shaman
The first says:"The person who comes into your life is the right person"In other words,no one comes into our lives by chance, all the people around us, who interact with us, are there for a reason, to make us learn and advance in each situation. The second law says: What happens is the only thing … Continue reading The four laws of a Shaman
Hurt
In English: Of course I'll hurt you.Of course you'll hurt me.Of course we will hurt each other.But, this is the very condition of existence.To become spring, means accepting the risk of winter.To become present, means accepting the risk of absence. I was reminded today that I should not seek only good things in familial relationships, … Continue reading Hurt
Limited
Cheers, May you be at peace my dearest readers,Karin Sabrina
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