In English: 
Of course I'll hurt you.
Of course you'll hurt me.
Of course we will hurt each other.
But, this is the very condition of existence.
To become spring, means accepting the risk of winter.
To become present, means accepting the risk of absence. 

I was reminded today that I should not seek only good things in familial relationships, as Oprah Winfrey once said that some people in our big extended family should be loved from a distance.

And no matter how good we are in anticipating the hurt that may come because of these better-love-from-afar types of person, we will still get hurt once in a while. It’s ok. It means you’re experiencing life at its fullest.

May you be at peace with the world around you, 

Karin Sabrina