I made up my mind not to care so much about the destination, and simply enjoy the journey.David Archuleta, Chords of strength: A memoir of Soul, Song and the power of perseverance Today I found out that a very much same trip can have a huge difference depends on how the journey is done and … Continue reading Leisure
mind and body
Realization
A few years ago, the realization hit me on the face. I couldn't carry people's expectations or taking a responsibility for their happiness. I also realize I could take a good care of my self and be at peace with my self. I am enough, I don't have to be someone else to be content.I … Continue reading Realization
Reflection
Here we are at the verge of year 2021, and for me it's a great time to do some personal reflection of this year. 2021, for me c'est un temps en rose. I tied the knot with the love of my life at the beginning of this year, in a small, private, beautiful wedding ceremony, … Continue reading Reflection
Deep
Sleep is a sci-fi movie If you didn't know what sleep was, and you had only seen it in a science fiction movie, you would think it was weird and tell all your friends about the movie you'd seen. They had these people, you know? And they would walk around all day and be OK? … Continue reading Deep
An Artist
See how stern I'm looking at you? That's because I truly recommend my lovely readers to do a form of art of your choice every.single.day. Some 200 something days ago, I choose to write in this blog everyday.. and I love how this daily writing become a very personal time capsule for me. I don't … Continue reading An Artist
Annoyed
It's funny how much I love you despite you're really annoyed me sometimes. The last thing I would do when I feel annoyed by you is to think about us, but here I am now, writing, looking at our smiley pic, listening to Dua Lipa, covering Mme. Etta James, I'd rather go blind in repeat … Continue reading Annoyed
Done is better than good
When it came to everything from washing the dishes to wrapping Christmas presents, my mother's thinking was much in line with General George Patton's: "A good plan violently executed now is better than a perfect plan executed next week". Or, to paraphrase: A good-enough novel violently written now is better than a perfect novel meticulously … Continue reading Done is better than good
Healing
If you spend your time hoping someone will suffer the consequences for what they did to your heart, then you're allowing them to hurt you a second time in your mind.Shannon L. Alder A few weeks ago, I've met some of my dearest old time friends, one has been and still are battling in legal … Continue reading Healing
Adventure
Don't let the expectations and opinions of other people affect your decisions. It's your life, not theirs. Do what matters most to you; do what makes you feel alive and happy. Don't let the expectations and ideas of others limit who you are. If you let others tell you who you are, you are living … Continue reading Adventure
Revolution
I wore black because I liked it. I still do, and wearing it still means something to me. It's still my symbol of rebellion -- against a stagnant status quo, against our hypocritical houses of God, against people whose minds are closed to others' ideas.J. Cash Some people wear a particular color of dress at … Continue reading Revolution