Tonight I spend almost two hours talking or… to be exact.. ranting to my husband. I’ve had a long time dissatisfaction about his attitude.
My husband now, is really sweet and kind, and he is the kind of person who will go a long way to avoid conflict. But there are times when I feel that he avoid conflict too much. Sometimes, yes, there are problems that will settled by it self, given a correct amount of time and condition. But there are also times when conflict is needed to make a rupture, to create a crack that hopefully will become a place where a new better things can sprout out.
I told him, it is good to set up boundaries. While you don’t like to participate in conflict, you should know that there are human that living their life for these endless conflict. And if you had no boundaries, they will take it as an advantage.
And my husband replied … None. He fell asleep. 😅😅😅😅 I basically talk to a pillow tonight. It’s all right.. this is the time when all I need is a comforting place to just talk … I need to let this emotions out, so I could rest happily without any leftovers baggage from the day.