You cannot ask things to do what they are not meant to do, Fransisco. Eventually, they will break.Mitch Albom, The magic strings of Frankie Presto, Page 418
Relationship
On complaints
Elizabeth Gilbert, BIG MAGIC - CREATIVE LIVING BEYOND FEAR, Page 117
‘NO’
No, thank you, I am not interested anymore to impress the person I don't even like with the money I clearly don't have. No, I will not dye my hair. I like it just the way it is. No, I don't have to look 15 years younger to be loved.No, I am not doing work … Continue reading ‘NO’
Healing
If you spend your time hoping someone will suffer the consequences for what they did to your heart, then you're allowing them to hurt you a second time in your mind.Shannon L. Alder A few weeks ago, I've met some of my dearest old time friends, one has been and still are battling in legal … Continue reading Healing
Revolution
I wore black because I liked it. I still do, and wearing it still means something to me. It's still my symbol of rebellion -- against a stagnant status quo, against our hypocritical houses of God, against people whose minds are closed to others' ideas.J. Cash Some people wear a particular color of dress at … Continue reading Revolution
Stars
“Look at the stars. It won't fix the economy. It won't stop wars. It won't give you flat abs, or even help you figure out your relationship. But it's important. It helps you to remember that you and your problems are both infinitesimally small and conversely, that you are a piece of an amazing and … Continue reading Stars
On marriage
First day of December 2021! Around this time, last year, me and my husband was so busy preparing for our wedding. The poem above, was initially planned to be put on the wedding invitation, but then I change my mind and use the poem by Sapardi Djoko Darmono instead. Both of those poems sing about … Continue reading On marriage
Jealous
You can only be jealous of someone who has something you think you ought to have yourself.Margaret Atwood, The Handmaid's Tale, #1
Friendship
Cari
Barangkali Kamu mencari di antara dahan-dahan Untuk sesuatu yang hanya terdapat pada akar. -Rumi-
