I'm having a pedicure treatment today! I feel like am having an ultimate 2 hours vacation! Sweet. It's all started with my husband wants to have a pedicure since his toe nail is clawing to the skin and it hurts, notably when he wears his work shoes. And of course as a responsible wife, I … Continue reading Footlove
Relationship
Memento Mori
Yesterday, I've attended a funeral ceremony for my aunt from my mother side. I called her mak tua, she was 77 years old and she died due to natural causes, she was bed ridden for almost 2 month before she passed away. For Bataknese people, there are two occasions that is being celebrated hugely: the … Continue reading Memento Mori
The change
Be the change you want to see in the world Okey, from that point above, I will do things as follows: Always questions hard the intelligence of a person who said: I don't know if this "statement/article/news etc" is right or wrong. I just share it, somebody might need this information. When I face this … Continue reading The change
Patiently
Patience is not one of my strong points. Those three photos above is a smiley reminder to me that I will have to wait in many many instances in this life. I have to wait 35 minutes to be checked by an ophthalmologists, I have to endure -for yet unknown times ahead- the "screeching" sound … Continue reading Patiently
Failure
I rarely watch TV... And when I said rare, it is rare, the last time I actually sit in front of a tv set to watch a show, is probably .. hmm ... 7-8 years ago. My favorite show was Top Gear ( the one hosted by Jeremy Clarkson, Richard Hammond and James May and … Continue reading Failure
Mr./Ms. Right
I no longer believed in the idea of soul mates, or love at first sight. But I was beginning to believe that a very few times in your life, if you were lucky, you might meet someone who was exactly right for you. Not because he was perfect, or because you were, but because your … Continue reading Mr./Ms. Right
Let there be love
Let there be you, let there be meLet there be oysters under the seaLet there be wind and occasional rainChilli con carne and sparkling champagneLet there be birds to sing in the treesSomeone to bless me, whenever I sneezeLet there be cuckoos, a lark and a doveBut first of all please, let there be loveLet … Continue reading Let there be love
The only child
It's not common to be an only child amongst the Bataknese, but that's who I am. I am the only daughter of my mother, and to be honest, I like the un-common-ness of being an only child. If you assume that being the only daughter means I always have a very warm and close relationship … Continue reading The only child
Senyum
Tidak lama setelah kami menikah, seorang teman bertanya: sudah berantem kalian? Dan Saya menjawab dengan senyum. Menurutku, pasangan yang bertengkar menjadi sangat sangat "normal" dalam budaya Kita. Setelah menikah, ya pasti kudu mesti bertengkar, itu adalah bunga bunganya... Heran Juga sebetulnya... Kok pertengkaran itu disamakan dengan bunga, kenapa ndak disamakan dengan duri? Atau gulma? Atau … Continue reading Senyum
First
Love your self first, they said, then... And only then you could love others. In my case, the man that I luckily called husband now, love me first, he show me that I to him, is so important. At that time I didn't love my self, I am so full of rage and disappointment toward … Continue reading First
