Life begins at forty I never knew being in my forties is equal with having daily good times. In my forties I can: Calmly say no to almost anythingRefuse a request without even trying to make any valid reasonAcknowledge those haters, they exist for some reason, and it's okay to not know whyFinally I feel … Continue reading Mature
mental health
Detached
No.. I am not interested to hear what you said about me. Perhaps I'm getting too old to care anyway or perhaps I know that there's nothing new, you still proudly wear that bitter knife in your mouth. I know you have taken a lot of effort to get my attention again, but.. nope.. I … Continue reading Detached
Feel
If you're dead, you cannot be killed anymore I heard above quote in a movie, a coach said it to one of his athlete who is easily baited to be angry and lose his focus in the game. I, my self also feel like that, easily angered by some derogatory comments by some people I … Continue reading Feel
Proud
I heard some say I am not good enough, I said to my self: my darl, you are magic.I heard some wish bad things happen to me, I said to my self: my darling, you are magic. I heard some baseless false stories made up about me, I said to my self: my darl, you … Continue reading Proud
Blooms
A flower does not think of competing to the flower next to it. It just blooms.Zen Shin Today I'm thinking about comparison. I'm no stranger to compare my self with other about my-gudness-all-myriad-of-things. Does my appearance good enough? Do I walk funny? Did my performance good? Did I answer that right? Why everyone seems have … Continue reading Blooms
Seriousness
If we're insecure, we make fun of others. If we're comfortable being wrong, we're not afraid to poke fun at ourselves. Laughing at ourselves reminds us that although we might take our decision seriously, we don't have to take ourselves too seriously. Research suggests that the more frequently we make fun of ourselves, the happier … Continue reading Seriousness
Diet
Cheers, stay sober, stay healthy,karin Sabrina
Faith
Faith sees the invisible, believes the unbelievable, and receives the impossible. Corrie Ten Boom Today, I just want to remind my self that I've been walk through a lot of thing that seems impossible to be walk through, but yet, here I am now. I'm alive, I'm loved, I give love and I'm blessed beyond … Continue reading Faith
Unhurried
If you accept the reality of slow progress, you have every reason to take action today. If you resist the reality of slow progress, five years from now you'll simply be five years older and still looking for a shortcut." I believe in an unhurried process in changing.. I started to blogging in 2017, I … Continue reading Unhurried
Raindrops
I just realized something very important this weekend, I can afford to waste time. Not much my dear.. an hour or two .. but I literally afford this immense luxury. I can afford to sit here, this afternoon, inhale the fresh air brought by the raindrops, in the front verandah, scrolling the phone mindlessly - … Continue reading Raindrops