Seorang teman baru saja menyudahi pernikahan selama 23 tahun setelah mengetahui suaminya telah mendua selama 8 tahun terakhir, dan sudah punya dua anak dari istri muda, masing - masing 3 Dan 1 tahun. Tidak, teman Saya tidak baik - baik saja, bahkan Saya yang menuliskan kisah pahit ini, tidak baik - baik saja. Hatinya Luka … Continue reading Khianat
challenging times
Shenpa
Today, I learned about a tibetan word: Shenpa, it has a very interesting meaning according to Pema chondron; Shenpa is an unwillingness of human beings to let go of certain thoughts, particularly those that cause us suffering. I have this bad habit to replay all the possible words that I should have said when I … Continue reading Shenpa
Forget
I often forget that I have so much to be thankful forI often forget how perfect my imperfect life for some peopleI often forget that my positive vibes is so attractive for negative personI often forget that some people has too much time on their handsI often forget that I don't have to attend every … Continue reading Forget
Power
To be comfortable with our own skin is a superpower. And never forget; other people's opinion of us, is none of our businessKarin Sabrina
Eccentric
I am an artist you know ... it is my right to be odd.E.A. Bucchianeri, Brushstrokes of a Gadfly, (Gadfly Saga, #1) Today I tasted an interesting flavour from "confidence". So this afternoon, when I was calmly washing my hand in the office toilet, a person with deep insecurities came to me and basically said to … Continue reading Eccentric
Relax
I believe I am healed; Most of the wounds has turn into rough scars, some are visible, some aren't. Few wounds still bleed, even the lightest touch will cause a painful memories to emerge. But I will let it go, relax, relax, relax. May you find peace, amen. Karin Sabrina
The church
The most vivid memory about the church for me is related to my divorce. When my divorce process was finalized by the district court, not a single person of that church said anything about the divorce. I was having my own version of Bruno-from-Encanto moment; No.. no, We don't talk about brunooo... Or in my … Continue reading The church
Resentment
"If you are filled with anger, you create more suffering for yourself than for the other person... So you try to bring peace into yourself first. When you are calm, when you are lucid, you will see that the other person is a victim of confusion of hate, of violence transmitted by society, by parents, … Continue reading Resentment
Personal
Some people are in such utter darkness that they will burn you just to see a light. Try not to take it personally.Kamand Kojouri For some reason, the lesson of "not taking everything personally" seems one of the hardest lesson I learn. I used to think that I'm not good enough, I am not smart … Continue reading Personal