Dear survivor from an abusive household, you are amazingly strong.
I don't know at what stage you're currently. 
Maybe you're still fighting for your legal single status at the courthouse,
Or maybe you're still figuring out what you are going to do now,
Perhaps today is that day when it hits you hard that you don't want to be in this abusive household anymore. 
Or perhaps you have reached that enviable stage where you are already able to stay calm and just be forever grateful for one of the most brave decisions you made many years ago. 

No matter where you are, I just want to tell you that you are amazingly strong. No human should be abused and bullied in a household. When you survive that, even manage to have a steady and harmonious life on your own, you're extremely lucky.

Dear survivor, especially in the early stage of separation from an abusive partner, please learn the best way to stop responding emotionally to the abuser. Learn to let go the blame. 

The abuser hates to lose control and access tou life. Never let them. 

Karin Sabrina