Some say: you can’t choose your family, I’d say you can and should choose your “family/tribe/favorite humans/person that you feel that you’re belong/the one who Appreciate you for you”.
And even though I believe we should choose our tribe, I do aware that I have made many wrong decisions and regretful choices along the way. I have chosen wrong human in the past, I mistakenly bought the idea that family is a matter of blood. I even had suffered mentally due to my scrappy image of an ideal perfect family.
Today I am a happy member of this special tribe I called family. Two of them related by blood with me and one is destined to be my sunshine from the first time I met him.
Cheers, May you be happy amongst your favorite humans.