A neighbor passed away yesterday morning... An old friend of my mother, a long time work colleague, a close neighbor. She is 74 years old. An aunt also passed away today, after a very lengthy illness, she finally gave up tonight at 7. She is 83 years old. My mother used to call her "eda", … Continue reading Ending
memento Mori
Rest in Peace
My mom actually has prepared for her "Rest in Peace" event; she wants the whole house covered with fresh flowers, actual fresh colorful flowers, not plastics; She also reminds me to serve the guests with good food. Yes, in Bataknese culture, the funeral of an old parent is considered a huge party. The old age … Continue reading Rest in Peace
Life
The first week of September 2018, there are lots of tears, heart badly broken, promises unfulfilled and consecutive disappointments.. A man who I respect and honored dearly, lost his wife to a battle against cancer, and seeing his grave sad and anger just shattered my heart into pieces.. He said, I've should have known the … Continue reading Life