If we're insecure, we make fun of others. If we're comfortable being wrong, we're not afraid to poke fun at ourselves. Laughing at ourselves reminds us that although we might take our decision seriously, we don't have to take ourselves too seriously. Research suggests that the more frequently we make fun of ourselves, the happier … Continue reading Seriousness
Books
Bizarre
I get it when a person I know is bragging about how she/he now leads a very healthy life a.k.a becoming the gym goers, had solemnly made an oath to never eat any meat of a sentient being, and never miss 5k morning jog no matter what; it's understandable, a healthy life is indeed hard … Continue reading Bizarre
Changes
So what should we be teaching? Many pedagogical experts argue that schools should switch to teaching the four C's - Critical thinking, communication, collaboration and creativity. More broadly, schools should downplay technical skills and emphasize general-purpose life skills. Most important of all will be the ability to deal with change, to learn new things and … Continue reading Changes
Weekend
Lire en Fête
21 April kemarin dirayakan sebagai Hari Kartini, dan dari sejak zaman Saya masih mendengar lagi 'choose' dari Color me bad dengan kaset yang diputar di tape kecil merek Sony; Saya sudah merasa ketidaksesuaian yang amat sangat antara tata cara perayaan Hari Kartini dengan ide besar dari Ibu R.A. Kartini sendiri. Ibu R.A. Kartini sangat suka … Continue reading Lire en Fête
Joyous
I bought the book a couple of weeks ago, allured by one simple comment by Monsieur Neil Gaiman, Joyous. And it is an accurate word to describe this book. Nope, I haven't finished it, I've marked the book at fourth chapter. I don't want the book to be ended and I also want to know … Continue reading Joyous
Joyous
I just bought these two books, the reviews on them are great and I can't wait to start reading them. I am going to start with "The invisible life of Addie Larue" by V.E Schwab, because Monsieur Neil Gaiman has given a "one word" comment on the cover : Joyous. So, my expectations are quite … Continue reading Joyous
Science
The scientific revolution has not been a revolution of knowledge. It has been above all, a revolution of ignorance. The great discovery that launched the scientific revolution was the discovery that humans do not know the answer to their most important question. Yuval Noah Harari, Sapiens - a brief history of Humankind - Page 251
Angry
“Anger is a necessary stage of the healing process. Be willing to feel your anger, even though it may seem endless. The more you truly feel it, the more it will begin to dissipate and the more you will heal.”Elisabeth Kubler-Ross and David Kessler You should be angry. You must not be bitter. Bitterness is … Continue reading Angry
Meditate
"All I seem to do is argue with myself when I try to meditate," " That's just your ego, trying to make sure it stays in charge. This is what your ego does. It keeps you feeling separate, keeps you with a sense of duality, tries to convince you that you're flawed and broken and … Continue reading Meditate