A friend has just resigned from our office today, he'll join another workforce starting February. Somehow, seeing him leave, I'm thinking about retirement time. What will I do when retirement comes? When I google retirement planning, I get many 'suggestions' regarding the savings for retirement. But retirement is clearly not only about the money , … Continue reading Retirement
Self reminder
Pengaman
Ada tiga tipe orang dalam urusan menabung: yang pertama, orang yang menabung, yang kedua yang merasa ga bisa nabung, yang ketiga yang merasa ga perlu nabung. Saya masuk kategori yang kedua yang merasa ga bisa menabung Karena yaaaa begitu besar tantangan hidup Setiap bulan, tidak pernah ada bulan normal di kalender . Maka di awal … Continue reading Pengaman
Peaceful
No, of course I don't have everything that I want, but I should remind myself that I already have everything essential. A cup of hot tea, a loving family, good health, ability to rent a cottage in this scenic place, time to have a deep conversation with my husband, and a lot more. May you … Continue reading Peaceful
Retrospection
I choose to remember youNot by how you hurt meBut by how you taught me to healNot by how you left meBut by how you taught me to never abandon myselfNot by how you broke meBut by how you taught me to rebuild myselfNot by how you dimmed my light But by how you helped … Continue reading Retrospection
Undone
Praise
Today I'm proud of myself for still jogging on the treadmill 3.5.km even though everything in my body say: no, I'm too lazy and too tired for this training, and it's definitely not a good day, it's Tuesday! I am also proud of myself since I can contain my emotions this morning, hopefully I could … Continue reading Praise
Cautious
If it seems too good to be true, it probably is Let's be very polite and say no, thank you, if: A friend is offering you a very good business that she's been doing in the last four months and as a result of this "dream" business, she's now driving a new car and having … Continue reading Cautious
Volatile
I see myself as a person with a sensible amount of patience, well...sensible in a broadest sense 😁. I generally can tolerate the myriad colors of the personalities of others, but .. and this is a huge but.... I find that toward several people I have met in this path of life, my patience is … Continue reading Volatile
In time
There's nothing good that comes from a compulsion. It takes time for me to understand the art of letting go. I don't even think that I've mastered this delicate art up to the current moment. To let go of a habit that doesn't serve us good anymore, to let go of the idea of "having … Continue reading In time
Short
Our micro getaway 💕 A great and meaningful conversation doesn't come automatically after a couple declares their promises to stay together no matter what. Too many couples I know, stop communicating once they live under the same roof, or after having children. Soon or later they don't speak to each other. They basically conduct a … Continue reading Short
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