Une chère amie vient de perdre sa petite fille,Un autre ami a son père dans le coma,Un collègue se bat avec un cancer de la galle,Une amie a une dette énorme sur son épaule,Une amie aura une audience concernant son divorce la semaine prochaine.J'étais tellement en colère hier à propos de choses stupides et je … Continue reading Problème
Life
Opaque
The term opaque originated from the Latin, meaning 'dark' ; meaning 'not transparent' and opaque substance does not let any light pass through at all.
A club
At the end of 2022, a dear friend invited me to join a book club, and I was excited! I mean .. literally excited, since I've never join a book club before and I love books, so after a few tap on the phone, I am a member of a book club. After the registration … Continue reading A club
Mon fils
Mon cher fils, ce monde est un si grand endroit avec tant de choses, de lumières et d'obscurités et tout le reste. Cet endroit immense peut être beau et impitoyable en même temps, et je ne sais pas comment te préparer pour cet endroit. Tu es si douce et gentille mon cher, tu es serviable, … Continue reading Mon fils
Abundance
I come from a place of abundance. I am loved, surrounded by my favorite humans. I wake up every morning with gratitude because I know I am very lucky to be at this point in my life. I may have lost a lot, but life gives me a lot more, way beyond what I deserve. … Continue reading Abundance
Too late
Don't you know that it's too late to say half-heartedly sorry? Besides, I'm a gold rooster, I seldom forgive. You do know that after you burn your bridge, there's no way to return, right? The path has been burned down, nothing left but much expensive lessons I must learn for the rest of my life.What … Continue reading Too late
Retirement
A friend has just resigned from our office today, he'll join another workforce starting February. Somehow, seeing him leave, I'm thinking about retirement time. What will I do when retirement comes? When I google retirement planning, I get many 'suggestions' regarding the savings for retirement. But retirement is clearly not only about the money , … Continue reading Retirement
Conspiracy
To this day, I never imagined that two years ago, we would or could have a beautiful, totally luxurious small wedding party, complete with all required bataknese customs (albeit in an abridged version due to the covid pandemic) and attended by all important humans for us. Both of us never had a proper wedding party … Continue reading Conspiracy
Retrospection
I choose to remember youNot by how you hurt meBut by how you taught me to healNot by how you left meBut by how you taught me to never abandon myselfNot by how you broke meBut by how you taught me to rebuild myselfNot by how you dimmed my light But by how you helped … Continue reading Retrospection
Experiences
The experiences should and need to be reflect upon. The reflection, that's the fertile soil to grow ourselves, to make use in the best possible way of all those experiences, happy sad and everything in between. I've read some days ago, it's probably from Adam Grant, it said something like this: " From the age … Continue reading Experiences