I'm learning to not envy others, It's supposedly not difficult. I can still wear my pants that I bought 5 years ago I can laugh most of the time
Month: January 2023
Visitors
Patience visited meAnd it reminded meThat good things take time to come to fruitionAnd grow slowly with stabilityPeace visited meAnd it reminded meThat I may remain calm through the storms of lifeRegardless of the chaos surrounding meHope visited meAnd it reminded methat better times lay aheadAnd it would always be there to guide and uplift … Continue reading Visitors
Grateful
Grateful is my major theme for this year, 2023. I want to remind myself to be grateful every single day. I am grateful for my loving partner, for my blissful marriage, for my artistic son, for a close-knit family I have right now; a beautiful relationship with family is not automatically gifted once we are … Continue reading Grateful
Conspiracy
To this day, I never imagined that two years ago, we would or could have a beautiful, totally luxurious small wedding party, complete with all required bataknese customs (albeit in an abridged version due to the covid pandemic) and attended by all important humans for us. Both of us never had a proper wedding party … Continue reading Conspiracy
Discovery
Several days ago, I received this anniversary notification, a beautiful surprise. I honestly think that writing is like traveling, by writing I travel into myself, into my mind, I also try to decipher the lessons that I have for that day. This year, I am writing to heal, to record gratitude, and to be at … Continue reading Discovery
Savings
Think of it like this, and one of the most powerful ways to increase your savings isn't to raise your income. It's to raise your humility. When you define savings as the gap between your ego and your income, you realize why many people with decent incomes save so little. It's a daily struggle against … Continue reading Savings
Pengaman
Ada tiga tipe orang dalam urusan menabung: yang pertama, orang yang menabung, yang kedua yang merasa ga bisa nabung, yang ketiga yang merasa ga perlu nabung. Saya masuk kategori yang kedua yang merasa ga bisa menabung Karena yaaaa begitu besar tantangan hidup Setiap bulan, tidak pernah ada bulan normal di kalender . Maka di awal … Continue reading Pengaman
Peaceful
No, of course I don't have everything that I want, but I should remind myself that I already have everything essential. A cup of hot tea, a loving family, good health, ability to rent a cottage in this scenic place, time to have a deep conversation with my husband, and a lot more. May you … Continue reading Peaceful
Retrospection
I choose to remember youNot by how you hurt meBut by how you taught me to healNot by how you left meBut by how you taught me to never abandon myselfNot by how you broke meBut by how you taught me to rebuild myselfNot by how you dimmed my light But by how you helped … Continue reading Retrospection
Experiences
The experiences should and need to be reflect upon. The reflection, that's the fertile soil to grow ourselves, to make use in the best possible way of all those experiences, happy sad and everything in between. I've read some days ago, it's probably from Adam Grant, it said something like this: " From the age … Continue reading Experiences