Love is not always something pinkish studded with shiny stars all over it,
Love is everything you put into it,
Sometimes love does like butterfly wings flutter gently onto your skin,
But some other times, love is like this: your spouse has had a tooth ache for almost a week, so today you are sitting patiently at the dentist for two hours with him, after both of you had a particularly stressful day at work. That's love, and care and attention. I should write more about this kind of love.