When I was very very young, probably 10 or 12, I used to want a flat stomach, low-rise jeans, and a cropped top. I grew up watching Britney Spears and Christina Aguilera music videos, where being skinny wasn’t just normal—it was the ultimate goal. And even though I’ve been slender most of my life, I … Continue reading Beauty
beauty standards
Notes
My dear self, you're so brave today.. you paid a part of that gigantic debt... You still don't know how to pay the next bill and debt installment but you're a hardcore believer that good things will come at the right time. You're also brave enough to start questioning your own thoughts. You know now … Continue reading Notes
Reverse
What if I reverse all ( or at the very least: most ... ) of the negative thoughts regarding my financial status? My salary is enough. I can pay my debts. A tiny bit of it every single time, but eventually I'll pay it off; all of it. I can also make savings: daily, weekly, … Continue reading Reverse
The gate
Beautiful gate
Silver
These days, I like myself, and it's a big thing to say. I used to be that girl who is longing to be someone else, to be that friend with "rich parents", to be that friend with "great hair/ nose/ skin/ height/ body shape, to be that friend who has a better life/ bigger salary/ … Continue reading Silver
Best
The best people possess a feeling for beauty, the courage to take risks, the discipline to tell the truth, the capacity for sacrifice. Ironically, their virtues make them vulnerable; they are often wounded, sometimes destroyed. Ernest Hemingway In essence, if you're feeling vulnerable, it means you're one of the best people walks on this earth. … Continue reading Best
Elegance
Elegance is not defined by what you wear or how much money you have, it's a combination of a lot of things. Elegance is how you walk, what you read, how you speak.Carolina Herera
First page
I'm starting the first day of 2023 with a promise to myself, I will love myself bravely. No more say 'yes' just because I'm afraid that I might offend anyone, no more put anyone's needs or wants above my own needs, no more keep silent about what I want or what I feel. Cheers,Karin Sabrina
No dye
We were at the front of the Regent office of Toba Regency Take a look at our hair, our flocks are full with silvery hair. I love it! The more it shows, I feel more confident with my own skin (and hair..). Not so many women feel comfortable with their own self, especially nowadays, where … Continue reading No dye
Glasses
I pity you who can't see the best light in others, you probably need a change of your glasses.I pity you who only chooses to see the mistakes of others, as if you could never do anything wrong, perhaps you've been treated exactly like that. You need to change your way to see your "people".I … Continue reading Glasses