A flower does not think of competing to the flower next to it. It just blooms.Zen Shin Today I'm thinking about comparison. I'm no stranger to compare my self with other about my-gudness-all-myriad-of-things. Does my appearance good enough? Do I walk funny? Did my performance good? Did I answer that right? Why everyone seems have … Continue reading Blooms
Snowman II
I met her only once, in a very brief meet up, and I have a lot of regrets up to this day about that meeting. I should have invited her to come to my place, I should have insisted to have dinner date with her, I should have told her how I know her, I … Continue reading Snowman II
Mercy
Priority
As per today, my priorities are: Hold on to my values, good principle in lifeThrill my soul with great books, avoid incivility at any cost, and never-ending love for my self.Kiss my favorite humans as often as possiblekill dementors ..I mean.. debts ...I used dementors and debts synonymously 😉, they are all the same, they … Continue reading Priority
Library
“Reading, for me, is like this: consumptive, pleasing, calming, as much as edifying. It's how I feel after a good dinner. That's why I do it so often: It feels wonderful. The book is mind and I insert myself into it, cover it entire, ear my way through every last slash and dot. That's something … Continue reading Library
Seriousness
If we're insecure, we make fun of others. If we're comfortable being wrong, we're not afraid to poke fun at ourselves. Laughing at ourselves reminds us that although we might take our decision seriously, we don't have to take ourselves too seriously. Research suggests that the more frequently we make fun of ourselves, the happier … Continue reading Seriousness
Diet
Cheers, stay sober, stay healthy,karin Sabrina
June
4 years ago, on 6th of June 2018, I defended my thesis and my friends were by my side through the day. I don't remember the detail of my thesis now but I do remember the pressure.. my goodness, there were Lots of pressures, academically, personally, and financially. I was basically jobless, my thesis was … Continue reading June
Satnite
They said we're lucky if we find love, and I believe so. But then the question that follows surely : after we find love, then what we do? Will this finding stay as it is or will this thing called love, evaporate to the thin air? Let me remind you my dearest readers, love that … Continue reading Satnite
Style
“Fashion changes, but style endures.”Coco Chanel I asked my husband today... According to you my dear, what's my style? And he replied: my favorite. Simple, natural, comfy and you always look confident with everything you wear. Awww... What a sweet darling. I secretly hope he will say something like: you look like a rock star … Continue reading Style