Self reminder
Connect
What is my resolution for 2025? None. No more broken promises, no more unrealistic goals, no more. I just wish to live day to day with good intentions, awareness, and gratitude. I no longer wait until the first of January to change my habits, my opinion, or even my hair model, if I want changes, … Continue reading Connect
S l o w
I put the picture above as my WhatsApp status today. So those lovely people in the office know that I am not available. And... Despite the clear message of that pic, some still send messages, email, phone calls ... 🙄... And me? I still answer them all.. I betrayed myself, although not much. I am … Continue reading S l o w
Peace
I chose the word 'peace' for the year 2025. I want to make the word as the anchor for me to walk through 2025. Why the word peace? Hmm .. I don't know... The word kinda pops up in my mind, perhaps because that's what I need; inner peace. My initial word was 'Acceptance', but … Continue reading Peace
The bread
This is a new day, and I am going to prioritize my health; mentally and physically. I found out that it's still so hard for me to take bad commentaries lightly, even when I know for sure that the person who made the comments truly cares about me and has no bad intentions whatsoever. I … Continue reading The bread
Slowing
Who are your current most favorite people? My favorite people .. it would be me. It's hard to be me, an only child from a tough mother who set a very high standard for herself and passed it onto me. I grew up in a patriarchal culture, where women are being judged relentlessly for everything … Continue reading Slowing
Brianna & Bottomwise
It's rare that I read a book in one or two sittings. Briana and Bottomwise, a novel by Indonesian Author Andrea Hirata is that kind of book. A superb book, I laughed and cried as I read the stories from many parts of the world, intertwined beautifully with music, reminding me of 'Not Fade Away' … Continue reading Brianna & Bottomwise
Advice
What's the best piece of advice you've ever received? 1. Nobody was ever thinking about you. Anyhow 2. Eat the frog. (Can be interpreted as Stop making excuses and just do whatever you have to do!) 3. Be brave means you're scared but still you move forward. Elizabeth Gilbert Yes, I adore Ms. Gilbert. I … Continue reading Advice
Present
It's good to be here, and boy... What a long time to realize that. True, there is so much to experience in life and I'm happy to be alive. Life is hard and I found out that I have no control toward everything outside myself. Even to control my own mind is similar to hard … Continue reading Present
Enough
It's heart warming when I do the "enough" practice. I have enough clothes, enough food, I do try to think that I have enough running shoes or running related gears, not gonna lie.. but it's sooo hard! 😅 I have enough money to cover my expenses tomorrow. Yes, that's how I operate nowadays. How much … Continue reading Enough