Finally, I found some ways to navigate the office drama, no… Surely not the end point where we could work happily ever after, but still a huge improvement.
- Set clear boundaries! People in the office are surprisingly able to feel your boundaries ( if you have it)
- Stop making your personal life a headline in office news. In today’s staged world, every one loves to put myriad personas just to get what they want.
- Never ever being the rude mouth in the office, these people remember your bitter remarks for decades.. I repeat: decades.
- Don’t play “hollier than thou” – game, people will put you under a microscope then,you will be scrutinized deep into your soul.
- Enjoy solo lunch. It’s good for your health.
- Remove yourself off whenever you feel that the situation of gossiping or whatever draining conversation that you have, is ‘unbearable’. Just leave, your sanity is much more important than this.
Karin Sabrina