No clarification of pain, no gain. When we fail to see the pain as it is, we fail to gain. I am angry today.. hmm... No... I am angry this afternoon, around 3 PM, to be exact. I am angry because a person I don't like in the office asked about the completion time of … Continue reading Pain
anger-management
Enviable
Some people may dislike you because: 1. You eat fruits for your lunch, 2. You eat instant ramen for your lunch;3. You have a tall slim body frame4. You have a short stout body frame5. You love to talk6. You despise talking7. You have a contagious laughter8. You held the award of the most rigid … Continue reading Enviable
Shenpa
Today, I learned about a tibetan word: Shenpa, it has a very interesting meaning according to Pema chondron; Shenpa is an unwillingness of human beings to let go of certain thoughts, particularly those that cause us suffering. I have this bad habit to replay all the possible words that I should have said when I … Continue reading Shenpa
Forget
I often forget that I have so much to be thankful forI often forget how perfect my imperfect life for some peopleI often forget that my positive vibes is so attractive for negative personI often forget that some people has too much time on their handsI often forget that I don't have to attend every … Continue reading Forget
The church
The most vivid memory about the church for me is related to my divorce. When my divorce process was finalized by the district court, not a single person of that church said anything about the divorce. I was having my own version of Bruno-from-Encanto moment; No.. no, We don't talk about brunooo... Or in my … Continue reading The church
A letter
Dear Ms. Bitter, I am deeply concerned about your rude attitude at the office. I don't think you realize that your incivility is actually shining a bright light upon your extremely insecure inner self.It seems that you have a very bitter, harsh life, I can be wrong for sure, since I do not have adequate … Continue reading A letter
S.A.I.N
Stop, when you feel anger materialized within yourself, say to yourself : hello, I can see that you, anger, is here now. Allow, let this strong emotion be there, believe in yourself, you can contain this anger.investigate, question yourself about the fear that causes this angerNon-identification; you are not your feelings. SAIN, that's what we … Continue reading S.A.I.N
Pffttt
That's hilarious, oh no darling, I have no obligation to answer your WhatsApp messages just because we are working under the same company.I curate my small social circles on daily basis and I have no intention to include you and your incivility into my personal network.I love positive vibes, kindness, respect and thoughtful comments, and … Continue reading Pffttt
Kim
First, I don't personally like the Kardashians, I never watch their reality show, I am very rarely watch any tv show for that matter. I don't have any Instagram account, in short: I never have any interest toward them. But then, I've seen the news about Kim Kardashian who must go to court to be … Continue reading Kim
Bad weather
It's a bad weather in the office today, well... You know that one annoying person in the office? I nicknamed them as 'a bad weather'. Them? Yes there are more than a singular annoying person in my office. But there is particularly one person who always succeed to sour my mood entirely. As bad weather … Continue reading Bad weather