We only control what we don't trust. We can either control ourselves or love ourselves, but we can't do both. Love is the opposite of control. Love demands trust. I love myself now. Self-love means that I have a relationship with myself built on trust and loyalty. I trust myself to have my own back, … Continue reading Control
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What do you wish you could do more every day? I wish I could be more grateful everyday. Being grateful will make me feel "enough" and this enough-ness will make me feel at peace no matter what. I wish I could spend more time with my kid. I wish I could read more I wish … Continue reading More
Dropping Keys
The small womanBuilds cages for everyoneSheKnows.While the sage,Who has to duck her headWhen the moon is low,Keep dropping Keys all night longFor the BeautifulRowdyPrisoners.-HAFIZ
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Lessons
I see a husband who is taking care of his terminally- ill wife, even though for years and years they have shown a very cold and distant relationship as a couple. Both in their seventies, he tends to her every need, he comes to her bed just by hearing a smallest sound from her mouth. … Continue reading Lessons
Purpose
We learn to use language well, spoken or written, only when we use it for a purpose, our purpose, to say something we think is important, to people we want to say it to, or to make something happen that we want to happen Instead of Education, John Holt, page 105
The four laws of a Shaman
The first says:"The person who comes into your life is the right person"In other words,no one comes into our lives by chance, all the people around us, who interact with us, are there for a reason, to make us learn and advance in each situation. The second law says: What happens is the only thing … Continue reading The four laws of a Shaman
Face
Today as any average person having some troubles in life I ask Google about it: how do we contain anger? Then comes the supposedly "inspiring quotes" about anger. These quotes mainly say that anger is not benefitting us, it will ruin you, the best fighter never gets angry (as if we all are some Shaolin … Continue reading Face
Me too
Yeaaay.... This is why I love P!nk. I do exactly the same thing. And I wholeheartedly believe that, the message above is not only for 11 year old boys and girls, but for all of us, human beings who want to keep their sanity and self esteem properly. Yes, social media could be a great … Continue reading Me too
Power
I have the power to grant or to not grant forgiveness. I can see that the other person may have traumas that led to his/her attitude toward me, but I am not here to fix or to change anyone. I am here for a purpose that is still continuously unfolding as I grow old. I … Continue reading Power