Different operating systems. So this morning, at breakfast time, I have a rare chit chat with my husband about our life and all the situations and people surrounding us. Rare? Ya because, one of the other things, it’s rare for us to have a leisure chit chat, he may be tired from his work, and I’m tired of being the only person who has to initiate all the conversation at home. You see… This is the part that rarely, or dare I say never..comes alive via any social channel. But since I am a writer.. so well … ..

In that rare moment, my husband, again said about his ideas on how the humans in our life should behave. 😅 He supposedly do this and that, She is not supposedly do such and such. And of course even a wonderful wife like me can’t escape from this shoulda coulda woulda talks. I usually just quiet, but not this morning.

I replied to him. We have different operating systems. I don’t think like your way of thinking and people surely not too. Stop wasting your energy to  shape the world as you wish. He did not reply with any defensive statements as usual .. or was it me who just won’t listen shoulda coulda woulda anymore. Either one I am fine.

Marriage people don’t always think alike.

Karin Sabrina